An Excerpt
from
"So What About the Money?: A Conversation Among
Friends"
First posted last year.
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"That's all?! Only 350,000 dollars?!" gasped an exasperated
friend.
"Yep, $350,000," responded another friend.
"You mean Marie offered to settle the litigation against Southwest
Baptist University for only $350,000? Three hundred and
fifty
thousand ... American dollars, right?" the friend
repeated slowly.
"Marie even lowered it to $348,000. Her lawyers offered to settle
it without any charge except to recover their expenses ...
so that
would have left Marie less than $300,000."
"Only 300,000? That's not nearly enough!"
interjected a third friend.
"I agree. That might be enough to pay off some
of the medical debts
and pay for treatment for a year or so, but good medical care is
expensive and most of this is not covered by Medicare or insurance
and has to be paid out-of-pocket ..."
"... and Marie is permanently disabled and will need care for the rest
of her life. She would still need enough money for relocation
to a safe
living situation. And, how would she pay for future bills and living
expenses ... never mind future medical expenses of at least $100,000
or more a year!"
"I know ... I know. Before Marie's mother died, she pleaded with
Marie
not to accept such a nominal offer."
"Her mother?"
"Yes, Marie's mother said that $300,000 wouldn't even come close
to paying for all those life-long expenses, and then Marie would be
left without any means of support."
"That's a ridiculously low amount. Why would Marie agree to make
such an offer even after her mother warned her?"
At the time, Marie thought that she still might be able to recover
some
of the whole use of her hands and legs if she got treatment right away
and ..."
"Wait a second: 'at the time?' What
time? When did Marie make
this offer?"
"In October of 1992 -- a couple weeks after the
break-in."
"1992?! The year of our Lord nineteen and ninety two ... you mean,
wait, I'm counting ... five, six, seven ... EIGHT years
ago?"
"Yes. You see, Marie's mother was so ill, that Marie didn't tell her
about the break-in for several years -- so Marie's mother never knew
how severely ill Marie really was. But, in fact, Marie was so badly
injured after the break-in and assault that many of us -- including her
doctors -- didn't think she would survive for much
longer."
"Good thing SBU had the Sheriff's Department to 'protect' them
from
disabled people, huh?"
"Right ... And to 'protect' SBU from anyone who filed a civil
or criminal
complaint against them."
"Well ... that's just ... just ... that whole business is corrupt and
immoral
and ..."
"... Yes, we know. But, at the time, Marie had no choice. She
was
forced to make a written offer to the SBU attorneys of $350,000
to
settle all claims of injury from the pesticide
poisonings."
"So, the $350,000 offer was actually an emergency attempt to protect
what was left of Marie's health and life from further assault and
injury?"
"Yes."
"And even then SBU's attorneys said, 'No' to that offer?!,"
"Absolutely. But they did make a counter offer of $200,000 and
later $250,000 ... which would have left about $200,000 for
Marie."
"Those tightwad cheapskates."
"But $200,000 isn't even close to enough to pay for full treatment
and any kind of recovery! Couldn't SBU
have come up with the extra
$100,000 by themselves so that Marie could at least have some kind
of fighting chance of recovery?"
"I know. They have money to build their football stadiums and tennis
complexes, to repave the entrance driveway and parking lots, to pay
for the six figure salaries of the administration, or to purchase a new
luxury 'President's house' from former President Roy Blunt ..."
"... but ... there was no money to settle this
properly?"
"These are the same people that spent almost a million dollars on
digging Centennial Lake ... "
"Yeah, I remember Centennial Lake ... Didn't President Dr. James
Sells and the Board of Trustees start that?"
"Yes, I believe that was another of Dr. Sell's
projects."
"It was supposed to be a recreational lake, but it basically ended up
as a big swampy hole in the ground that leaked
..."
"They had to fill it back in during the 1980s because it wouldn't even
hold water. By the time it was over, SBU and the Missouri
Baptist
Convention did put almost a million dollars into that
hole-in-the-ground."
"I think Marie is worth more than a lake ... or a leaky, muddy hole
in
the ground. "
"Yeah, If they cared so much about a big mud puddle, that they
would
even go into debt for it ..."
"... Yes, couldn't they have worked something out for a
student?"
"Well ... I don't think SBU could be accused of being Good
Samaritans
in this situation."
"Good Samaritans?!
Get real! They acted more like the
thieving thugs
who waylayed and beat the traveller and left him in the ditch to
die!"
"Yes, but the money part of the offer wasn't the only problem
with the negotiations. "
"After seeing SBU's attorneys operate for the last few years, somehow
I'm not surprised to hear that."
"Very true. But, Marie believed that if she could have gotten immediate
treatment with the funds from the settlement, she still might eventually
recover enough to be able to work and earn a living of some
kind ... "
"I think that she might have been a bit too optimistic on that point
..."
"Well, maybe so, but -- at that time -- she thought that if
she ever
recovered enough to work, she would still need a college degree in
order to get some decent job ... "
"Well, manual labor certainly wasn't
an option for her any longer ... "
"True. She also knew that because of her disability it would be much
more difficult to transfer to another university ..."
"Yes, it would be a challenge to transfer -- in her senior year, no less
--
to another university when she was still trying to relearn so many skills
and manage a newly-acquired disability."
"Right ... So, as part of a settlement agreement, Marie made the mistake
of asking that SBU allow her to finish her university degree -- through
correspondence or in-home study."
"Well, considering that they were the ones who permanently disabled
her, that was the least they should
do ..."
"But ... the SBU attorneys went ballistic, denied Marie's
request,
declined to discuss the matter any further, and then completely shut
down any further negations."
"Wait, you mean SBU didn't want Marie to finish her
degree?"
"Not a chance. Not even when they learned
that her father 's last wish
was for Marie to finish her degree. When Marie asked
if they would
help her to honor that request, SBU
refused."
"They denied her father's last request? Are you saying ... that
this
student told this Christian university that her Dad's last wish
before
he died was that his daughter finish her schooling ... and these people
still wouldn't allow her to finish?"
"Shame on them! After disabling her in the first place,
they really
didn't want her to even finish school? Isn't SBU a member of the
Christian Coalition? Haven't they ever heard of ... integrity,
or
honor, or family values?"
"I guess not, because even though Marie had only a few classes left
to finish her degree, the SBU attorneys and the administration would
not even consider it. In fact, they laughed at the
idea."
"They laughed at her? That's sick. What's their
problem?"
"Well, their problem was -- and still is
-- that they were afraid.
SBU's corporate attorney, Gary Lynch, and others in the administration
and faculty were avid -- you could say vicious -- about
discrediting
Marie and getting rid of her because they didn't want her to talk
or finish the litigation."
"Talk? You mean, they didn't want her to talk about the pesticides
and all the cover up and unethical and illegal
misconduct?"
"Yes, that ... and other things. They were afraid of all the legal
and
political fallout for SBU and others if this all got out or went to
court."
"Ahh ... I see, the attorneys were afraid that they would be found out
and would be in jeopardy of losing a lucrative retainer with SBU,
or maybe even losing their law licenses -- to say nothing of having to
answer a lot of uncomfortable questions or of having to face criminal
charges."
"Yeah, and the rest of the faculty and administration were afraid that
their misconduct would be discovered and have to be dealt with openly
if Marie stayed to finish her schooling."
"Yes ... but what SBU didn't know was that when Marie made the
offer in October 1992, she hadn't even seen most of the
depositions.
At first, she did not even realize the full extent of unethical
and
criminal conduct by SBU and Campbell .... "
"So, Marie wasn't even aware of much of these illegal goings-on
by
SBU and their ... associates?"
"No, not at first. And, frankly, even when she did discover
elements
of the corruption, Marie wasn't even interested in all
that."
"Ah, but, of course, SBU and its associates assumed that
Marie operated
in the same manner that they did. They assumed that Marie
would press
her advantage and seek revenge if she received a settlement,
correct?"
"Right ... But to reassure them, Marie authorized her attorney to
ask
that -- for the good of everyone involved -- SBU's attorney, Gary Lynch,
make arrangements to come to speak to her personally in her
home."
"I bet he was too much of a coward to come to see her face to
face."
"I don't know if he is a coward, but, no, Mr. Lynch never did make an
appearance."
"Figures."
"When that effort failed, Marie had her attorney send a letter to SBU's
attorney explaining that she still 'cared about' SBU and
describing
how important it was to Marie that she finish her degree. To be accurate,
Marie had actually said that she still
'loved' SBU, but her attorney
translated that as 'cared
about.'"
"Hold on, you mean ... Marie said that she still 'loved'
-- or even just
'cared about' -- these ... people even after they committed
all these
cruelties and crimes against her?"
"Yes, Marie still loved ... and forgave ...
them. She just wanted to
obtain enough the funds for her treatment and finish her degree.
SBU, though, just wanted Marie gone ... and gone for good."
"Are you saying that they wanted her
dead?"
"Well, they didn't exactly do much to keep her alive, healthy, and
stress-free, now did they?"
"It seems fairly obvious that after the negotiations soured, and it
looked
as though Marie would continue with the litigation, that SBU would
have preferred Marie dead ... or at least (if SBU had
gotten away
with their plans) as incapacitated as possible."
"They did seem to go the extra mile in their bullying and
hostility
toward her, didn't they?"
"Yeah! Extra mile or two ... or
ten!"
"That's why they fought so hard to slander
and deny her any
medical or financial assistance."
"It's like one of the SBU boosters said, 'If Marie
died, there would
not be any lawsuit.'"
"I will say it again. This whole business has been thoroughly illegal
and immoral and..."
"I don't think THAT ever bothers SBU. They act as though they
are
above the law ... because they are 'Christians.'"
"Christians are not above the law. They are called to a Higher
Law."
"No offense, but does SBU know that? They seem to disregard any concept
of responsibility."
"That's what I am saying! They whimper and whine that all is right
with
the world because even though they are sinners, they are
forgiven sinners ..."
"Right ... Forgiven and free from all
their crimes, wrongdoings, and
injury to others ..."
"... but the rest of us are left to try
to pick up the pieces of our lives while
they move on to new victims ... I mean ... victory in
Jesus."
"Well, I am glad that they didn't get victory in one regard: I
am glad that
they didn't get away with killing Marie ... or at least not yet
anyway."
"Yeah, for the time being. But, Marie still needs funds
..."
"I agree, she still needs enough funds for her treatment and living
expenses. She won't make the same mistake again, though.
She has
definitely learned her lesson. She will not ask SBU or the
Missouri
Baptist Convention to help her finish her
degree."
"So much for a Christian education,
huh?"
"Now, Marie just wants to live . She just wants to escape
these people
... even if it means leaving the country."
"I don't blame her. I would never
trust my children -- or anyone else's
children -- in these people's hands."
"Yes, I would have to agree. A Baptist University that fights to keep
medical
treatment -- and even food and energy assistance -- from one of
their
own students in order to save money and to cover up their
own misconduct
and crimes ... ? That certainly doesn't sound like a very
'Christ-centered'
institution to me!"
"But, that's the problem. In their own eyes, they are justified,
don't you see?
To them, Marie was a 'problem student' that got in their way
and caused
a disruption to 'The SBU Family'..."
"...You make them sound like a crime family -- like the Christian Mafia
or something ..."
"Well ... If it walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, and
..."
"That's what I mean. In their eyes, they have a right to
retaliate against
Marie. They are protecting 'The SBU Family.' What are a
few lies,
some slander, a bit of bullying, a little crime, maybe a murder or two
... "
"Right ... As far as SBU is concerned, it's that simple:
end of witness,
end of lawsuit, end of hassle, end of story
..."
"Christian excellence in action ..."
"... Onward, for the Kingdom!"
"Please ... Isn't that just a a bit
harsh?"
"But ... These people are dangerous! To them, whatever they
chose
to do is right. They act as though they are exempt from all
these earthly
trivialities of legal, moral, honorable, ethical, or responsible conduct.
Integrity is for less enlightened Christians -- not for
them."
"Yes, I know. You two may be right. That's why I wonder if they will
ever leave Marie alone -- even if some agreement is
reached."
"Well, they have left her alone -- as in,
abandoned her -- for years.
But ... will they ever leave her be? Will she ever be
safe from them?"
"... or, will they still feel that she is a threat
and try to hunt her down
no matter of what she does. She shouldn't have to require bodyguards
for the rest of her life!"
"There are some very disturbing aspects to the SBU
philosophy and culture.
Something akin to: 'Do what we say, or we will hurt you. And,
dead students
tell no tales.'"
"These people are such mean, greedy, little ... dogs."
"Well, I don't know if I would say that. Kind of insulting to the
dogs, don't
you think?"
"Alright, sorry. They're not dogs ... they're
wolves."
"Marie said that these people were dangerous
dogs ... "
"Now I would hardly believe Marie said
that!"
"Well, she didn't exactly say that. She said that they are
like dangerous,
mad dogs ... like snarling, rabid dogs ... and
that, in their madness,
they are being slowly consumed by themselves and devoured by their
own pain and confusion."
"Sounds like something Marie would say."
"Does she still say that she 'cares about' them and 'loves' them
-- even
if they are like snarling, rabid dogs?"
"I asked her that. Marie is a remarkable person. She said, 'Yes,
I still
care about them and love them.' She feels that because they are suffering
--
even if they brought the affliction on themselves -- that they are all the
more to be prayed for, nurtured, forgiven, and
loved."
"You're kidding! So, I guess she wouldn't mind returning to
SBU then, huh?"
"I asked her that, too. She answered that she didn't think that it
was wise
to climb into the pen with mad, rabid dogs ... for fear the disease would
spread, and she, too, would suffer the same fate."
"I wouldn't climb in there with them either. Who
wouldn't be afraid of
snarling, mad dogs?"
"I think that she is afraid of them ... for a number of reasons. I
know I am.
I don't think that any amount of reassurance or talk of Christian
'love' will
mend this situation. It has gone on far too long and cost Marie and
others
too much."
"I don't think it is so much a matter of fear ... as much as
it is a matter
of trust. How can you trust a snarling, rabid dog ... even
if it were
once your favorite pet and companion?"
"Well, there are very good reasons not to trust SBU -- primarily,
because
they haven't been trustworthy!"
"I am not sure that any of us will ever trust SBU again. They will
have
to work long and hard to earn our trust."
"Maybe so, but I think that the best that can be done is for everyone to
resolve the situation as prudently and quickly as possible ... and then
for Marie and SBU to part company."
"I think that's true. It is definitely time let sleeping dogs
lie."
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The above is a excerpt from
"So What About the Money?: A Conversation Among
Friends"
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